Friday, September 22, 2017

Musings.

 Husband just got back from Florida.  Hurricane Irma, thankfully, turned out to be less devastating than everyone planned, and he was back sooner than expected.  Every time we chatted on the phone, he would remark how very, miserably hot it was there.  Several screen shots said 97 degrees.  No thank you.  I said to my kids a few times, "I will never step foot in Florida again."  Statements like that usually get me into trouble.  I remember back in the day remarking, "I could live anywhere again, except the south," and you see where that got me- to the heart of the deep south.   Both statements are purely climate related, however.  So, my heart sank a bit when he came home announcing that when we go on vacation, it will be to Florida.  No, everyone really is lying when they say, "it's hot, but a different hot because its near the water."  I call foul.  Been there, and still miserable and he said the same thing, but apparently, there was one island that got his adoration.   I have actually been stressed about it since.   This can't be normal.  It cannot be normal to obsess about weather all year long.   "It's so hot,"  "It's miserable,"  "I can't because there is no shade," "It's a bit cooler but it won't last,"  "Yep, it didn't last,"  "I can't believe I have to bring out the short sleeves again,"  "Cold weather is her..... NEVERMIND, it's summer again. "   Georgians have my respect.  I just can't do it.

  Lately, the fixation has been looking at properties in Maine.   It's just.... I've done New England, and I know what "nice" weather (that is good summers) can't buy.  It can't buy community, biblical churches, lax homeschool laws, and friendships.  I had a heck of a time finding a community up in Rhode Island as a married adult, and I don't kid myself to think that New Hampshire would have been any different.

   It's just easy here.  I'm not a networker, but I have a network.  I'm not gifted socially, but it's easy to be social.  I don't have extra money or resources but I have free stuff and people who do at my fingertips.  Homeschooling is popular enough, and if it isn't, Atlanta is a melting pot and a major city.  I have those conveniences with the benefit of being in a suburb within a 20 minute commute.   It's affordable.  I just don't see that option anywhere up north in the weather I prefer.  There is also my preference of hospitality.  I have in fact, found it so much friendlier and open.  That's after living in four states above the Mason Dixon line and four below it.

   I decided to start writing about my pipe dreams instead of talking to husband about it.  I can say he makes all the decisions, and ultimately the decisions are his to make- but I influence him more than I like to admit.  I know full well he never would have dreamed of moving to Atlanta, had I not mentioned it and been fully on board.  So, after a few nights of, "Wow! Look how cheap these properties in Maine are!"  I got a "You really inspired me with those properties in Maine."  He has mentioned a few times buying cheap property and building on it later.  Sometimes I wonder if I will look back on my life and say, "I said it was God's will, but was it really just mine?"  "If it was God's why did I have to hark on it?"  "What if I just sat back and waited, like what I should have done?"

    There are moments when life is so idyllic in Georgia I want to smack my ungrateful self in the face.. and then the 89 degree weather smacks me in my pale face when I step outside, the sun mockingly throwing some pre-mature-aging rays right at my freckled face and I go right back to Zillow.

     Today was a homeschool field trip to the Harvest Bread Company.  Just the drive alone was worth it.  We had to drive through a country town to get there-worth it.  I'm thankful to live in a suburb and even metro-Atlanta has lots of trees and grass and everyone isn't completely piled on top of each other (**cough**Rhode Island***), but to get out to a moral rural location, I'm always game.  Every farm house, cape cod, and cottage had my name on it.   My husband also informed me that our next house will be a ranch.. How are we married?  I don't think he knows that our house in Maine will not include internet while we are building that hut.   I'm pretty sure I can picture his dream home-  A floor plan so open, it doesn't even have walls; Every fixture: CHROME or something shiny; man cave with leather furniture; manicured bushes...    While he was in Florida, I managed to put one hole in the wall and TWO burn marks on the table.  I didn't even know about the second one until tonight. Yippee, can't wait until he sees it.   Now I have to go youtube how you even get that off.

   Harvest Bread Company is definitely a field trip I'd recommend. 



 

Friday, March 4, 2016

Somewhat orderly Chaos

 Homeschooling has crossed the precipice from chaos into a pretty predictable schedule.  Well, order for me.  As an incredibly abstract-random learner and processor, I need lists and order.  I don't like them, I need them.  My personality is too easily distracted by new curriculums.  So-and-so introduces something at the homeschool share and I have to try it.   If I don't, we are missing out.  They will not develop appropriately!   Yes, this phase passed quickly with a little thing called burn out.  These are the things we went with:


    Spelling: All About Spelling alternating with Rod and Staff Spelling.  For my special needs, dyslexic child.  I was convinced this child just would have to rely on autocorrect for the entirety of his life.  Still,  dyslexia does keep a constant obstacle (while finally reading with somewhat ease, he will come up with random backwards spellings.  This program does wonders.
 This method breaks down everything into phonograms, vowel/consonant teams, and  diphthongs.  The letter tiles are great. I cannot recommend this enough.  Last year was the first year I had a decent homeschool budget. I think I spent about 75 for this program. Worth every penny. I even use it for my non-dylexic child.
 For Charlotte Mason homeschoolers, it is so much more gentle than Rod and Staff spelling and includes your dictation for the day.  However, because AAS has no word lists and I have one child playing catch up, we alternate on days when I need to dedicate time to teaching another child.  AAS is parent/teacher led.  No workbooks.


MathMath-U-See

   We have stuck with this since almost the beginning. The blocks helped my dyslexic child finally understand place value.  We use the blocks for Multiplication all the time.  Still using them.  I love Math U See because it explains the why of Math.  I never understood borrowing fully.  (It was that bad.) Now I do!  I love you, Steve Demme!  Having said that, we will stopping at Geometry and switching to business math for practical reasons, unless one of my kids show a strong interest in that direction.
 



 Reading: Sonlight and Rod And Staff
    While Sonlight would have been enough, Rod and Staff does reading through the Bible, so I couldn't pitch it altogether.  My sons officially know the Old Testament better than I do.  In a year or so, one of their readers will be an Abeka book.  That will be the only time we ever utilize Abeka. I was drawn to this reader because its lessons are all through the  The Pilgrim's Progress.



    Some of my highlights of literature: Any book by Richard Maybury
 

   Recommended by Sonlight. If you get nothing else, make your kids read, "Whatever Happened to Penny Candy?"




 Little House on the Prairie Series (as it turns out, I never read these as a child??),  Indian in the Cupboard Series, (So far, we are on the fourth book.  The first three did not disappoint!)


Grammar: So, this category has definitely changed the most.  I tried, I mean really tried to love Rod and Staff Grammar.  It is so thorough, so organized, so wonderful.   So why couldn't we pull it off?  Oh, those traditional Mennonites.   They know I want to be one of them.  Alas, we are not.  There was just that groan when I would pull the book out.  There was no love of grammar, and I knew there never would be.  I just wanted the boys to grasp cohesive sentences.  This will be a real struggle with my PDD learner.  We switched to Easy Grammar.  So far it's been going well. 
                   S3: Also alternating between Rod and Staff (Preparing to Build), and The Well Trained Mind's First language lessons.

Science:  My curiosity was piqued after reading this review I was going to go with Apologia's Human Anatomy, but since it has extra goodies, like copy work, scripture verses, and a lot of extra writing,  I decided to save that for another year when we aren't attempting so much writing.
               I am already looking forward to doing human anatomy after watching this extensive review.

      Edited to add: This year, we ended up shelving Apologia for another year and instead did a more unit study approach.  Sources used were a- bit-of- this and a- bit- of- that. *Simple Science Experiments with Everyday Materials, *Science and the Bible (a personal favorite- Thank you,  Church Library!, *It Couldn't Just Happen (various reads), *The Usborne book of Science, *The Everything kid's Science Experiments Book.   


Bible/Apologetics: Easy Peasy, And Josh McDowell's, "Is Christ Really God?"
  In homeschooling, a lot of these subjects overlap.  Rod and Staff reading is still used once a week, and since that is entirely taken out of the Old Testament, I always know they are getting good Bible in.  We start the morning now with Easy Peasy. I tend to either over think Bible.  I tried many various devotionals.  Turns out, I rarely like devotionals.  Easy Peasy is simply a chapter out of either the New Testament or the Old Testament (Proverbs) at a time with review questions at the end.  So simple, yet I actually now look forward to it, knowing the boys will give it their attention.


 D1 curriculum:  We alternate these.  Keep in mind, I'm lucky to get one of these in besides her reading lesson and practicing her writing.
                           Teaching Your Child To Read in 100 Easy Lessons 
                           Explode The Code (Phonics)
                           Rod and Staff: Bible Lessons to Read with Bible Pictures to Color
                           Rod and Staff: We Learn About God
                           Starfall
                           

Curriculums that I didn't like:
Apologia- Botany
and, I hate to say it, because I tried: any textbook put out by the public schools. It is a hard thing to stick with Botany for a year.  It was so dry for us.

All of these books except for All About Spelling, and Rod And Staff, I bought used on amazon.  As many know, Rod and Staff is so affordable, it's just an added bonus that it's a wonderful curriculum!
 Handwriting? Well, let's just say I was trying Pentime. It doesn't work for M for cursive. We are trying to just do the work mat. Cursive is a real struggle for my eldest.

  D1, being a typical youngin', doesn't need much. Whatever we don't do in just reading and art, she is doing through Easy Peasy, and I can't say enough about it, nor the creator Lee Giles. There is no other woman I have met that puts homeschooling in the right frame of mind for me.  I wish I had known about her during the days when I felt alone in having zero dollars to put toward a homeschool budget.  If you are having even a second of comparing your homeschool situation to others, or if you get depressed when people mention the classes their children are taking, the expensive curriculum they are doing, listen to her interview. 

   While some curriculum choices come with picking and choosing, selecting, pitching-  Rod and Staff, and Answers in Genesis - Not just absolutely wonderful content, they are EXCELLENT companies. I bought AIG on amazon used, and much to my dismay, found an essential teacher DVD was missing. I called them and they sent it for free- even thought I bought it used and not from their site!

  Other than that, my goal this year is to take the pressure off the kids. Let them enjoy learning a little more.  That is why we shelved Rod and Staff grammar, and with Rod and Staff reading, stopped doing the worksheets.  More learning songs, and break up to activities.

 

 




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